Twoboos
01-29-2011, 02:47 PM
DD2 is 5.5yo.
She is a beast when she does not get what she wants or is frustrated. Ex: right now she is looking for a small book that we can't find. And we have helped her look. And she is in HYSTERICS. she is screaming at the top of her lungs. She cannot be calmed down. She will not accept or help come up with other alternatives. From the very first minute that she couldn't find it, she became angry and refused to help look.
This happens pretty much daily, with anything. At any time if something is not going her way or she is frustrated, it is a complete breakdown. Luckily, mainly at home. (Sometimes I can get screaming crying breakdowns 6x/day, starting first thing in the morning. Being woken up by being yelled at by your child is not fun. "I wanna go downstairs NOW!!" It makes me miserable.)
I have The Explosive Child and need to finish reading it. Trouble is, even if she agrees to a plan, in the heat of the moment she will forget that she agreed to it, or refuse to put it into action. But I KNOW she needs to be taught how to do this. She is no fun to play with when her rules are not followed to the T.
Help. I feel she needs a psych eval. Or I do. Does anyone have the "Dealing With Feelings" series by Elizabeth Crary? These have good reviews on Amazon and we could use Mad/Furious/Frustrated to start.
She is a beast when she does not get what she wants or is frustrated. Ex: right now she is looking for a small book that we can't find. And we have helped her look. And she is in HYSTERICS. she is screaming at the top of her lungs. She cannot be calmed down. She will not accept or help come up with other alternatives. From the very first minute that she couldn't find it, she became angry and refused to help look.
This happens pretty much daily, with anything. At any time if something is not going her way or she is frustrated, it is a complete breakdown. Luckily, mainly at home. (Sometimes I can get screaming crying breakdowns 6x/day, starting first thing in the morning. Being woken up by being yelled at by your child is not fun. "I wanna go downstairs NOW!!" It makes me miserable.)
I have The Explosive Child and need to finish reading it. Trouble is, even if she agrees to a plan, in the heat of the moment she will forget that she agreed to it, or refuse to put it into action. But I KNOW she needs to be taught how to do this. She is no fun to play with when her rules are not followed to the T.
Help. I feel she needs a psych eval. Or I do. Does anyone have the "Dealing With Feelings" series by Elizabeth Crary? These have good reviews on Amazon and we could use Mad/Furious/Frustrated to start.