Do we need to do more for DS2?
DS2 is 4.5 and has an IEP for speech, OT, academic delays (I don't remember what it is qualified as exactly but it was a generic "early childhood delay" label he qualified under.)
He goes to half day preschool through the school district and has an inclusion preschool class and receives his speech and OT there. We are relatively happy with it all and he has made tremendous progress (literally went from spending the fall semester hiding in the corner and refusing to participate at all at his regular ed preschool to interacting, making friends, riding the bus to preschool without getting upset, etc. He can go to a busy playground and make a friend now vs. a year ago he'd be crying on a bench begging to leave and refusing to play if there were more then a couple kids at the playground.)
He has never been formally diagnosed with anything but I am pretty sure he has sensory processing disorder (I have an education background and my mom is a retired special ed teacher), and my mom feels like there is probably either some OCD/anxiety at play as well but it's really hard to eek out right now. (Does he only wear the same 3 shirts and 3 pairs of shorts every day over and over bc it's a sensory thing and he knows they are comfortable, or is it an OCD thing, or just a 4yo who loves Batman shirts thing?) We would not medicate him for anything at this point as we can talk him through a lot of his anxieties most of the time with a lot of time and patience (ie. last year he refused to swim/do water play/do Ferris wheels, etc., this year he has been fine with everything except doesn't like getting his face under water.)
Anyway, we have his well visit at the ped coming up and I am not sure if I should ask about a developmental ped/work toward getting a formal diagnosis or just keep going as we are since he is already receiving services and making really great progress and I'm not sure that there's a point in pursuing a label further at this point when he's already receiving services and it is going well. I don't want to shortchange him by not getting more information though if it could be helpful. Thoughts?!
Do we need to do more for DS2?
I work as a SLP in my school district. It sounds like your son's eligibility for school services is Developmental Delay. In my state, a child can no longer have that eligibility for K, so all the preschoolers get re-evaluated before K. The eligibilities we can use for school aged include Speech and Language Impairment, Specific Learning Disability, Autism, Other Health Impairment, Emotionally Disturbed and Intellectually Disability. The issue we have is that many children that qualified under DD, don't qualify under other eligibilities, except maybe for speech, but that only gives speech therapy not OT or academic support. SLD requires proof of academic delay, and preschoolers aren't doing academic school work, so that's often not given until late K or 1st grade. OHI is used for a range of Other Health Impairments, including ADHD, or medical conditions. If you child had a diagnosis, it may be considered under OHI eligibility. I had one student who was Speech only that needed academic support, but we couldn't give that to her. She wasn't going to qualify as SLD as beginning of Kindergarten, but as she had a medical condition, we could reclassify her as OHI, and she got academic support.
Sometimes you need the label to get the services. I had one parent that wanted to dispute the Autism eligibility as outside provider said child had Social Language Disorder. We don't have that option as an eligibility for Special Education services. It was either Speech or Language Impairment with no academic support or Autism eligibility with Speech and academic support - keep in mind that the school criteria for Autism eligibility is not the same as DSM criteria for Autism diagnosis, and the child did meet schools criteria for that eligibility. Parent agreed and child got services they needed.
I would find out how long the Developmental Delay eligibility continues in your state, and ask about the process of transitioning to K. If he will keep DD eligibility for a few years, you may not have to worry about reclassification and gave time to see how he does in K.
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