big asbestes problem/dilemma
So I bought this house during the summer and it has popcorn ceilings. The feeling was there was probably asbestos in the ceiling, but it was best to leave it alone/not disturb and everything would be fine. Popcorn ceilings are very common in my neighborhood.
Well, to make a long story short there were 2 full length mirrors in my bedroom that I was told needed to be removed for the heating options I was considering. I had someone doing some unrelated work for me, and I showed him the mirrors. He told me he could remove them without disturbing the ceiling. Well, the ceiling was disturbed. I don't know what I was thinking as I don't see how they couldn't have been, but I always think others know more than me when it comes to this kind of thing. I called an asbestos specialist (not his exact title) my real estate agent had given me previously. He said that it didn't sound to bad, that I should wipe everything down, he assessed that I had a HEPA vacuum and then said I should vacuum. Okay, I did all that and then a few days later decided to get up on a ladder so I could wipe down the tops of the walls, which I had not done. When I got up on the ladder, I saw there were lots of pieces of "popcorn" hanging down. I called the specialist again and he told me to take wide cellophone packing tape and use it to stick those that were hanging down on to. I did that and in the process lots more came down, on me, on the ladder, etc. I am now very freaked out and, after talking to people decided to do a test to confirm there actually is asbestos. The test confirmed there was, which didn't surprise me.
Now, what to do? I do have an abatement company coming on Monday to give me an estimate, but it is very unclear what would be best at this point. I am afraid to sleep in my room (slept on the couch the last 2 nights) as I have had 2 "incidents" and don't feel sure the room is safe, although the 2 asbestos people I spoke with told me they don't think what i describe is a big deal..the truth is I don't know if anyone really knows since the effects are usually seen many years later. I have no idea what abatement will cost (I think someone recently posted on here they paid $3000 for a house that happened to be similar in size to mine but I did a google search and found a post on a different board from someone in my town stating they paid over$8000 for a house my size). Also not sure if that will be more or less safer as I assume they "disturb" it more to take it down..and its in my whole house except for the 2 very small bathrooms.
Oh, I also asked if it made sense to do an air quality test in my room right now. They said probably not as that just tests the number of "fibers" which includes various things, not just asbestos.
Any ideas or input is very much appreciated!