hmm, well, that's a great question. not sure i can do it justice, but i'll tell you what i remember from skeletal development from grad school. hopefully someone with more knowledge/expertise will chime in.
our bones lay down increased densities according to a principle called Wolf's Law (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wolf's_law). basically, we lay down new/additional bone _over time_ wherever there are sufficient forces put thru an area of bone to encourage an increased density to support those forces.
so i think it holds true that part of what stimulates a growing childs body to put down bone in the place of this initial cartilage are the increased forces going thru those areas. these increased forces come from external things like gravity pulling on an ever increasing body weight as we progress thru development into more upright postures (sitting and then standing) and also from internal forces (muscles and tendons pulling directly on certain areas of bones).
so in the case of the growing childs spine, the density of the bone (and therefore the forces it could withstand) would be a combination of the age of the child (level of expected ossification as well as _time_ for that ossification to take place) along with the stage of development of that particular bones density based on the external and internal forces it had been exposed to. essentially, the only thing that really buys them safety is time... time for the bone to ossify and time for wolf's law to accomplish the laying down of additional density relative to the forces the body experiences.
does that make sense?? hope it answered it at least in part. let me know if i need to clarify.
lori
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