I don't have any advice regarding your mom, but I just wanted to give you a big hug! We've had a little experience with kiddos & hospitilization, and it's so scary. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this with your daughter. You are such a strong mama! :)
Kelli
Proud Mommy to Lukey (4.2003)
And a new baby due Christmas Eve, 2006
http://www.windsorpeak.com/dc/user_files/34503.jpg Weaned after 3 years!
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