RE: Help give me money saving ideas!
We have had to cut back quite a bit. We moved in June so DH could pursue his PhD, and that dropped income sharply. Fortunately the cost of living where we are now is much less than where we were living before, and the profit on our house will pay our mortgage for the next few years.
Anyway, you got some great ideas from everyone already. Some other ideas:
Consider a programmable thermostat (we bought ours but haven't installed it yet) so you can turn down the heat or AC quite a bit at night but have it turn on in time in the morning to make things warm enough when you get up. The savings on this adds up quite a bit. They aren't cheap but I think they pay for themselves pretty quickly. This may or may not be a good investment depending on how much time you have. You would have to read about it and calculate some things for yourself. If you don't go that route, remember that turning down your thermostat even 2 degrees is a savings.
Consolidate trips/travel whenever possible for errands to save on gas. Plan your route.
Stay out of stores as much as possible. If you aren't there, it makes it tougher to spend money.
Meal plan. Reduce consumption of your more expensive products...meat, gourmet cheeses, etc. Try to cook a few vegetarian or lower cost meals several nights a week.
Cut back on going out to dinner. If you *have* to go out, try lunch on a weekend or going out to breakfast or for coffee rather than dinner. Cut back on the fancy gourmet coffee habit (as the PPs said). Make it a date night one time a week instead, which is waaaay cheaper than dinner :)
Try a version of once a month cooking (there are old threads on this or you can google it) or some version of this. Having backup meals in the fridge makes it less likely you'll call to order a pizza or go out for dinner because you didn't defrost or you don't have the time/energy to cook.
Don't waste food. Simple concept, but I know in our less than frugal lifestyle before, we tossed a LOT of food. Keep an inventory on your fridge of leftovers (we don't do this but I'd like to!) and try to use them up. If you have a doubt about whether you'll get to it in time (half used blocks of cheese for example) toss it in the freezer :) By being organized about it and planning ahead, you can really really reduce the waste you have food-wise. This kind of goes with meal planning...make planned leftovers part of your schedule so you use them up if you can stand the idea ;)
Make your own pizza as a family activity/cheap meal on a Friday night :)
Get something good to carry water in (we have Klean Kanteens) rather than buying bottled water when you are on the go.
If you are heading out on a family outing (beach, museum, zoo, etc.) pack a lunch. It takes 15 mins, and although it can be an inconvenience, it saves a lot of $$ and is healthier.
We don't have cable and we use Vonage. We do consider high speed internet a necessity with DH's need for it with school.
We buy a few good things for DS each season (2-3 more "special" outfits) and lots of the rest of his clothing is a mix of thrift store things and gifts from family members.
Cloth dipes and cloth wipes
Reduce paper towel buying by using cheap-o dishtowels or rags to clean up spills, etc.
Split a membership to a warehouse club (if you consider this a necessity) with another family member and take them as your guests regularly.
Natural cleaning products like baking soda and vinegar work really really well on almost anything and save a LOT of money over conventional cleaning products.
Look for free entertainment in your community. We are near several major universities so there are a lot of cultural events and free music going on all of the time. We do things like that rather than spending money for a very expensive night out at the movies and we don't feel like we are missing anything :)
I wish you much luck...the motivation of a new home and knowing this is all for a short period of time in your lives will hopefully make it all worthwhile :)
Mama to DS-2004
DD-2006
and a new addition-ds born march 2010