Has anyone ever heard of or "done" FlyLady or Motivated Moms? If so, can someone please help me decide which is the better tool to use? I don't really relish the idea of getting 20 e-mails a day from FlyLady, but I also think you have to pay for Motivated Moms... I'm not sure how much. No time to look it up this second. Anyway, can someone please make a recommendation? Thanks!