Here is what I did...
Here is what I did in my situation. (My situation is different from your's.)
My Dad forgot my husband's birthday two years in a row. The first time it
happened, I just let it slide. The second time it happened, I *accidentally*
forgot my step-mom's birthday.
A few days after my step-mom's birthday, I got a phone call from my Dad.
He told me (in no uncertain terms) that it was not acceptable for me to have
forgotten my step-mom's birthday.
And, I said, "Perhaps when you can remember my husband's birthday, then
I will remember your wife's birthday."
That shut him up pretty quickly!!
Corie
"A smile is a curve that can set a lot of things straight."
-fortune cookie