How do you spank a child, and how old until?
To me, spanking is grabbing a child by the arm, and giving her a firm swat on the behind when she is misbehaving. To my husband, it's having the child over his knee, pants down, and firmly spanking the child.. very different than what I envisioned, but he says it'd be more effective for little boys (I was raised in an all-girl household).
Just makes me uncomfortable, but is it more effective? How old do you spank kids until?