RE: If you are disorganized as I am, here is a link to help!
FLYLady is great because her thing is you can do anything in 15 minutes. It all starts with your kitchen sink. Make sure it is clean and shiny (and empty! even if it means dumping everything on the counter or in the dishwasher). I live with the timer and I constantly take breaks so I don't feel overwhelmed. I think what she has to say is good and it has certainly helped me. Give it a try. You need to start where you are at, even if that means just getting your sink to shine. :)
-Melissa
Mom to M (2002) & M (2014)