RE: Help!! Is she spoiled or is this still reflux?
Well, there are many schools of thought that say that you really can't spoil a baby less than three or four months old.
I would swaddle her, but I would also try and get her to sit in a bouncy seat or something similar instead of constantly holding her. She's way too young to let her cry it out, so if the bouncy doesn't work, then maybe try a sling.
Sophie was on Zantac for about six months, and it helped tremendously. The only catch is that it takes a couple weeks before it really works.
I don't know if you're co-sleeping or have her in a crib, but if you have her in a crib, try raising the head of it with some books under the legs. It made a difference with us.
Try a few different kinds of pacis before giving up. I think it was a good 10 weeks before Sophie willingly took hers. We used a clean pinky until then.
Good luck!
-m
Wife to Jonathan
Mom to Sophia 12/02 and Amelia 12/04