Hi,
I have the Peanut shell for my 10 week old baby and she HATES it. She likes to be held in a somewhat upright position - in fact most times she will fall asleep only if I hold her up against my chest and let her put her head on my shoulder ( and this is a baby that mostly never sleeps!). So I was considering the Baby Bjorn Active. But so many moms seem to love the Ergo and also the Ellaroo Mei Hip so I need some advice please. She is already 12 pounds and my back and shoulders are not really all that toned so so I need to get something that will allow me to handle the weight as she gets bigger.
NYC Mom