Originally Posted by
Raidra
Kids who aren't shown love are more likely to grow up with serious issues, that much has been well documented. Kids who grow up in AP families are shown love, so the bolded statement holds true. The article doesn't say, "The only definite way to prevent your child from turning into a psychopath is to AP" - it says that by showing your child love, it's less likely...
You can take the words at face value and say that because he never says it explicitly that he didn't mean it. I on the other hand look at the entire article and the overall tone and come away with the message that the only way to get these things is through AP. Clearly I am not the only one who gets that message.
All the little disclaimers in the world can't change the overall message being sent. Kind of like the tiny print on ads for tobacco or alcohol - as if that little message in the corner saying you could get lung cancer is going to negate the pictures of people partying while smoking.
ETA; I guess what I'm saying is that if he wanted to say that kids who are loved and have involved parents turn out better, he could have. Instead, he says kids who are raised AP turn out better. While both similar statements, the latter implies that only AP does this.
Last edited by o_mom; 05-14-2008 at 08:25 AM.
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