Originally Posted by
ha98ed14
Anyway, I have been checking out GCM. I had previously looked at it but kind of written it off as not for me because, although we are Christian, we are not evangelical. I read some of their threads and find some of it hard to swallow or hard to live up to (Who keeps house joyfully? I hate housework!). Plus, I don't bf, CD, baby wear, co sleep. It is not that I don't agree with it; I think it is probably the better choice, but for me, my PPD was really hard. I actually had feelings of resentment for DD for the first several months. I did NOT want to bf, wear a sling, or do extra loads of laundry full of doo doo. I feel bad about this, guilty that I could not be a better mom who was/ is attached and happy about it. I am really fearful of putting myself out into a group who holds these as the ideals because I didn't/ can't live up to it. But you all say there are things to be learned from it, so I will reconsider. Do you post or just read certain sections? Maybe I will just read it, not join. That is an option.
Thanks again for all the resources and support.
Liz
I'm not an evangelical Christian either so I agree that a lot of the board can be off putting but the Gentle Discipline Forum within the main board is an excellent resource. And like you found out, you don't have to join to read that forum.
And another thing I do want to point out. Attachment parenting is not about cloth diapers. BFing, co-sleeping, and baby wearing are methods to foster that attachment because it keeps the baby close by you but AP looks different in every relationship. It is about building bonds with your child and meeting their needs. You do not need to do any of those "things" to build those bonds, they just make it a bit easier.
Veronica
Miss Ellie 11/03
Baby Audrey 4/08