Since you're going the TV route, and she's 17mo, I have some suggestions for good shows for her:
* Sesame Street, of course.
* Blues Clues
* Jack's Big Music Show
* Little Bear
* The Upside Down Show
* Oswald
All of these are very gentle, heart-wearming shows with good educational material, and zero worry factor. All very age-appropriate. This was also the age that DS was introduced to his first three movies via DVD, and they were enormous hits with him. I'm so glad these were his first:
* Madagascar
* Toy Story
* Cars (even for girls)
Best of luck. It really will get better!
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