I'm in my second trimester and HATE reading all of these posts about how my libido should be back and flying high by now. It puts such pressure on me! No, I DON'T feel like having sex. I feel fat, tired, constipated....and I'm actually having a fairly easy pregnancy. But these "experts" make me feel like a failure to my DH, like I should be running around in sexy lingerie, all heated up for him, when all I really feel like doing at the end of the day is going to bed at 8:30.
For those of you who did feel that way, I hope you realize how lucky you are.