Originally Posted by
MamaMolly
Here is the thing I'm stuck on. I know pot is not a big deal to a lot of people but for me it would be huge. I'm probably beyond square, but for me the pot would be a total deal breaker. What if BIL really had messed up your DH with the pot in his food? What if something had happened to your DCs because of it?
JMHO here but sweeping problems under the rug is one thing, what your BIL did/does goes way beyond that. Sneaking drugs into people's food would be the e.n.d. of any relationship I had with BIL.
I agree with this. If someone gave me a controlled substance against my will and without my consent (which I would never, ever consent to and have never been vaguely interested in, I was and still am pretty straight edge) I would quite likely never speak to them again. And I would never, ever, take my kids into a house where drugs were being done or commonly kept. My brother for a time had a roommate on drugs, we never went there until the guy was gone. It's just not in my comfort zone, moreover with children.
Last edited by kijip; 12-28-2009 at 03:21 AM.
Katie, mama to a pair of boys.