What age for cry-it-out?
DD is only 3.5 mos old, but was born 3 mos early, so her adjusted age is roughly 2-3 weeks. DH is content to let her cry at night until she falls asleep, and when she wakes up if not content after a feeding. I say she is too young to cry-it-out and that there is nothing wrong with holding her to comfort her back to sleep. Which means that this job gets left to me at night. Who's right? And if she is just wimpering with short, intermittent cries, do we let her go?
Mom to a spirited, red-headed, former 28-weeker 10/2009 and a more mellow monkey 12/2013.