I'm having difficulty with the infant insert for the Beco II. DD is almost 3 weeks old. She is big- 9-2 at her 2 week check-up. When I measured her for the infant insert as shown in the DVD, the insert looks like it should be inserted below the "do not insert below this line" line. So, I just put the insert at the lowest possible point to still be safe. But, DD's head peeks out of the top of the carrier. Is this ok? Her neck is still supported. I find it strange because it says the insert should be used till 15 pounds- I think she'll definitely be too tall for it at that point!
Second question- I have a really hard time adjusting the straps that buckle the front of the carrier to the shoulder straps. (The ones with the two-handed safety buckle.) I have to take the carrier off to adjust them. Any tricks? Also, how tight should those straps be?
Any help is greatly appreciated! Thanks!!!!