This is me too. I talked to my OB about PMDD and she checked my estrogen levels and then prescribed a progesterone cream. I'm supposed to follow up with her next month to see if it's helping. I'm 37 and my dd2 is 20 months now. I posted about PMDD a few months ago b/c I can be angry and awful about once a month. The last time I had a really terrible mood swing I tried to explain to my husband. I told him that really, when I'm "in that moment" I hate everyone but I hate myself most for how awful I am.
And I've got the other stuff too. I have acne worse than when I was a teenager. (How do I get it to go away? Oh please!) And, yes, I also will barely spot for 2-3 days prior to having a heavier flow.
I actually feel a bit better to see that someone else has such similar symptoms. I might try to explore this further with my ob. I'll let you know if mine has anything interesting to say about it.
big girl 6/06
little girl 9/08
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