thanks to this thread, i greeted dh at the door with a kiss when he came home from work yesterday. he just gave me a peck as usual so i grabbed him and gave him a real kiss. of course he had a big smile on his face, his eyes lit up, he thought that i was horny. as soon as the girls fell asleep, he gave me his "so . . . aren't we going to have sex" look.
I wish it were more! But we use NFP, so can't get too kissy 3 out of 4 weeks. (How long til menopause??) So, mostly pecks for now. We're very affectionate, even with the kids. Tons of kisses for the kids, all day long! I'm definitely not touched-out.