Who's first -kids or hubby

[lil_acorn]

What do you think? There are different thoughts about what makes a successful marriage. Do you put the kids first or your spouse first?

Honestly, I confess that I put the kids first (but I have young kids ranging from 5 months to 7 years), but could see why it's important to put your hubby first. In this way, your kids get positive role models to emulate for their future and when the kids are long gone or grown enough that they'd rather spend time with their friends than parents :-), you still need to be able to enjoy each other with an empty nest.

My DH still do date night ~1/month and have lunch together often.