My son's birthday is 12/22. He'll be 7. He wants to have the party at a local spot here that has arcade games and a few rides, it's really geared toward kids his age. It is very pricey. It's $200 for the first 8 kids and then $20/kid after that.
Normally we've always invited a whole class to bday parties and the school says that if you bring the invite to school you have to invite the whole class. I'm sure not everyone would go (planning on 12/17); however, if everyone went along with a few outside friends, it's somewhere around $660, which is obviously ridiculous.
I was thinking about just mailing the invitations to the houses of the kids that he really would like to go, as opposed to the entire class. That's closer to 11 out of his class, rather than 22. I would hate for anyone to get their feelings hurt. However, they are just in first grade and with so much Xmas stuff going on, I don't know that they would notice. My mom, a kindergarten teacher, doesn't think they talk about it much at that age.
WWYD?
(By the way, this is really the only great option at this point. DH doesn't want to have the party at our house and there aren't very many spots that are actually in our town).