exDH managed to make me cry on Mothers Day. Ruined an otherwise perfect day.
He texts me at 2:45 today if I had plans for DD. I tell him my plans and ask him why he wanted to know. Apparently he wants to take her to see his mother at 6. I HATE when he springs plans on me at the last minute but its mothers day and his mom hasnt see DD in at least a month so fine. He asks me to drop her off around 5:30.
I get to his moms at 5:40 and his mom invites me in to wait on him. We make ackward conversation, I havent seen them in at least a year and they know we are at each others throats. After an hour of waiting I text him. He's 'on his way' he shows up 45 minutes later (its under 15 minute drive). So then I get escorted out of the house since we dont get along with the instructions to be back before 8 to pick her up. Ok its already after 6 in a small town, WTH am I supposed to do? I ended up at target. I bought a tube of toothpaste and some allergy meds. I left target and decided it was close enough to 8 to get DD. I go to get DD and discover that exDH has taught her to make two new stupid noise and a naughty words. I ask him carry her to the car because its raining. She is 2 and fights getting strapped in her car seat. He made to meager attempts, yells at her to "STOP" then when she doesnt yell at me I should be helping and slams the door making my DD cry and storms back into the house. So I got to strap a screaming upset toddler into a car seat in the pouring rain. No "happy mothers day". No thanks for driving her across town on short notice. Nada. Typical for him but still it sucks that he cant be bothered to recognize I am raising his child.
He wants me to give him slack because hes working. Well I'm working 60 hrs a week, going to school half time, a single mom to a toddler, and I have a social life (kinda) wheres my slack buddy?