I totally agree with your comments. I don't see the article as an attack - just as a reminder to consider all the consequences of the choice. I think the article has already provoked a great debate here which is hopefully helpful to some. All that matters is that one makes a thoughtful decision. As wellyes pointed out, I was actually surprised by the response here. Her comments did not seem that controversial to me since those are basically the things I considered and I did not realize they were almost taboo. It's not an indictment on being a SAHM. She is just stating the reasons why she personally regrets staying in that role for so long while giving up a pretty promising and lucrative career - which is also an important factor here. I think the calculation changes greatly depending on the particular job and the financial picture of the family.