so my title pretty much says it. dh's grandpa is on hospice. we visited this past weekend (which was good!) but he is very near death. i'm wondering what to put the kids in for the funeral. its in memphis, so certainly a more formal culture then where we live. dh will wear his black suit, i'll wear a dress. but all the kids summer clothes are white/light colored. and the boys just wear polos, shorts and boat shoes to church. but that doesn't seem right for a funeral. suggestions?

(dd is 6, ds is 4, ds is 2 and dd is brand new).