One of the moms at my son's preschool is organizing a joint baby shower for 3 of the women in our class who are expecting. I am not close to any of these moms, but I feel like I have to attend.
Anyway, these moms are all expecting 2nd or 3rd kids, all same gender as their previous ones (one is having her 3rd girl, for example). The 'room mom' who's hosting the party at her home hasn't specified what the gift situation is... I always thought the etiquette for 2nd and subsequent kids was more of a 'sprinkle', especially with three moms to buy for, but there are several rich and ostentatious moms in DS's class (see previous 'mean moms' posts!), and I expect most people will bring gifts.
Do I really have to buy three baby gifts? Even though I have barely even said 'hello' to one of the moms who's expecting, and only exchange pleasantries with the other two? Moms 2 and 3 are pretty newly pregnant, too (late first, and early second trimester), while Mom 1 is due next month, so it feels a bit odd to be celebrating them all at the same time. WWYD?