Originally Posted by
twotimesblue
The issue I have posted about has nothing to do with not being invited to events that all the other moms go to - it's about a distinct clique of bitchy women, who have done their best to create divisions and exclude a good number of the moms.
This post was asking a genuine question about gift etiquette for second and subsequent kids, especially if you aren't friendly with the expectant moms, and you are celebrating three women at the same time. I don't have $100+ to drop on gifts for women I barely know, but I don't want to be the only one who shows up with diapers/nothing at all. I would feel uncomfortable soliciting or receiving gifts from people who were acquaintances at best, especially if it wasn't my first baby, but maybe that's just me.
I feel like I have to attend for the sake of future school-gate relations, even though I have a ton of things I'd rather do on that day