Originally Posted by
calebsmama03
And the a PP who said you can't have it both ways (re wanting to be included socially then upset over a baby shower invite) I would have to disagree. I don't know the whole situation here but in general I think it's very different to be included socially in group play dates, mommy nights,etc and to be included only in events where you're solicited for gifts or volunteer time etc. it sounds like THEY are trying to have it both ways- only invite select moms to all events while including the rest in order to get more $ for gifts. :/
That was me and we'll have to agree to disagree. An invitation was extended. I don't think it's fair to immediately assume that it was extended only in the basis of getting more gifts (and if that is the OP's assumption, it's probably fruitless to pursue social activities of any sort with these women). Getting to know people better usually takes time and effort, even if it's not always under one's ideal circumstances.
OP, if it's $50 per recipient, that's crazy and I'd politely decline to attend the shower, especially since you said that there were more things you'd like to do then. If it's $50 total, I'd consider it, assuming you are inclined to attend the shower.
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DD1 10/2010
DD2 8/2013
And expecting DS1 10/2016