I know that there are some real birthday party gurus here, but I'm not one of them. I have to say, I dread planning birthday parties so much. It just seems like a massive waste of money and it stresses me out to no end. Just call me scrooge. DS1 will turn 7 at the end of June and I am already dreading it. I have no idea what we're going to do. I really want to offer to take him and one friend to an amusement park or something and not do a real party thing.
Last year all I did was take him and a few friends miniature golfing. Sounds easy. Except one of the kids totally wouldn't listen and kept finishing before the other and going onto the next hole while the people in front of us were still playing there. He was totally off the wall hyper and really difficult to deal with. DS1 is just not like that so it was a really different from what I'm used to with him. I was so glad when it was over.
We live in a townhouse and it's just not very conducive to hosting something at home. DH and I did that one year, and we swore we wouldn't do that again. I'm also not good at crafts or planning games. I kind of suck at this. DH doesn't even bother. So it's totally on me.
I feel like he's getting too old for a lot of the standard party places. Plus, I just don't want to shell out $400-500 bucks on this. Sorry, but that just seems crazy to me.
I also feel like kids expectations for parties these days are way out of whack and that parents get stuck in the keeping up with the Jones mentality where they feel they have to do it because that's what their kids expect. So far DS2 has just had family only parties where our extended family comes over for lunch and that's it. I really hope we can do that again next year when he turns 3, but already some of the kids in his class have had bigger birthday parties.
Anyway, I know this is a total whine and that I'm looking for someone to tell me it's ok to not do it, and that I might not get that. Whatever. I just want to whine. I hate this stuff.