My DDs are 6 and 4 and neither has had a kid party before. We invite grandparents, my brother's family (close by) and my one aunt and uncle (who live close by). If they can all come, great, if not, no biggie. We do a deli platter or hots/hamburgers and cake. I make sure the cake and the plates, cups, napkins are in the theme of the kids choice. My kids enjoy the attention and DH and I are not stressed out or exhausted by the prep and clean up. And we already have so much kid toys/clothes that I can't handle DDs getting friend gifts on top of it. Both DDs have attended friend parties but have never asked me for one so I just roll with what we've always done.
Mom to two amazing DDs ('07 & '09) and a fur baby.
Gluten free since Nov '11 after non-celiac gluten sensitive diagnosis. Have had great improvement or total elimination of: migraines, bloating/distention, heartburn, cystic acne, canker sores, bleeding gums, eczema on elbows, dry skin and scalp, muscle cramps, PMS, hair loss, heart palpitations, fatigue. I'm amazed.