I'm awful at deciding when to let something blow over and when to bring it to the teacher's attention. Hoping for some BBB wisdom.
DS1 is in 1st grade, he's a rule follower (unlike his older and younger siblings - I had to get ONE rule follower, right?). There are two issues that I'm pondering.
1) They get a reward for getting into class on time in the morning. DS is up, dressed and ready to go a good 30 minutes before we have to leave, but it's a battle to get him out the door. He wants to go to school, but not on time. After some digging he said that it's because his locker neighbor sits in front of his locker and refuses to move, makes a scene and embarrasses him. DS2 confirms the story. It's in line with my interactions with her - she's sweet but has no boundaries. She's up against a lot in life and I have a soft spot for her, but she is very abrasive and I don't doubt that DS1 struggles to work through it. Should I let him deal and miss out on rewards (he'll live) or mention it to the teacher?
2) DS1 was punched on the playground today, during a soccer game. Not accidental, there was a disagreement and he got sucker punched. His best friend has already left the game because kids were cheating - my guess is that DS1 tried to enforce rules (he's that kind of kid) and it didn't go over well. He's told the teacher, I haven't heard a peep from her but do trust her response. I'm inclined to let it go - but did that in the past with a different teacher and regretted it (wasn't handled well).
ETA: I'm in the classroom 2x/week, chipping in because they couldn't afford aides this year. I could easily mention it without scheduling a meeting...just not sure either issue calls for discussion with the teacher.