Originally Posted by
AnnieW625
We could sell our house we think (this is based on my searching Zillow for comps...although the broker is suppose to search for us as well) for between $485k and $500k so after 6% standard realtor fees we would probably net between $11k and $25k on the sale of our home and that is assuming we wouldn't have to put any money into it in order to sell. Rental prices here are kind of high and if all goes well our mortgage payments (including impounds and pmi) will be about the same as rent of a 3 bed., 1 bath 1100 sq. ft. house about $2600 a month in our same area, and in some areas with great schools the rents are even higher. I know I sound like I am making excuses, but this is simply life for us. We were young and stupid (27, and 30) when DH took the job here, but DH had been out of work in a competitive field, area, and time (post dot.com bubble bursting) for almost two years so he took the best offer and the most stable offer he had received at the time. We had 6 months of our income saved when we moved (DH had saved the bulk of this money when he was with that first job out of college) but we opted to buy a house before prices went really crazy, but were still high, and we wanted kids so that money has been used in various ways so I could take extended maternity leave, covered a majority of DH's 25% pay cut he had for 3 yrs. during the CA budget crunch (he had 36 furlough days a year) and so we were able to make improvements to the house (new windows, new heater, new window AC units) as needed.
We also don't do crazy stuff like buy expensive cars, take expensive trips, buy expensive clothes, we chose a reasonable summer camp this year, and had it not been for work trip to San Diego DH had and my parents paying for myself and the girls to come and visit them we would have gone no where this summer.
Vludmilla, we make $160k combined gross so I am not making what my DH makes, if we were making equal salary that would be awesome. Yeah maybe I am in denial a bit about what we spend, but it doesn't really add up to anything really nice, it is just normal everyday stuff for us. We commute a lot too and have no public transportation options to get to work so we commute each about 12k miles a year, and our gas bill is probably high too, maybe $400 a month, and hence why we have a car payment (we were putting a ton of miles on our Pilot vs. our much smaller 01 Corolla because that was no longer comfy for two tall adults and two growing kids to go pretty much anywhere than church in).
We did not invest the 10k and we didn't take a vacation. We used it to pay property taxes, the income taxes we owed in 2013, a portion of DD1's summer camp, and yeah it really sucks that we didn't invest it and don't have 14k or so, but even if we invested it instead of using where we needed it instead of racking up credit card debt we wouldn't have been able to reach it without taking out a penalty so it would have become un reachable income too and we'd still be in the same spot as we are now.