I WOH for many reasons... mostly lifestyle related. DH's teacher's salary can't afford us the 2600sqft house, the 2012 Ford Explorer, the 2007 Lacrosse, the twice-a-year vacations. While I don't make a lot (about 65% of DH's salary), it's the difference between being comfortable without financial worries, or living severely paycheck to paycheck. Some of it is also personality related--I get blah when I'm at home all day and DD is at school. And I get blah if DD and I are home together all day. There, I admitted it--I work because I just don't find joy in being a FT SAHM. DD has social issues, and would need an aftercare situation for socialization anyway, so I'd be home 10 hours a day, alone, with a house to clean. Doesn't get my motor runnin'! I like working. I like helping people feel better. I'm much happier overall when I'm working.
Yes, I plan on working for a long time.... DH and I have agreed that shortly I'll be back in school to become a midwife, and my working time will be turned into study time, and, eventually, work will mean being on-call 24/7, catching babies, doing pre-natals and post-natals, and taking care of mamas, mamas to be, and teeny new babies. Can't imagine anything better way to spend my work life! Eventually, when DH retires, I'll cut back the number of births I attend, and we will have more time together to travel, help even more with the grandbabies, etc.
Now, as important as work is to me, I do fight for a good work/life balance. Currently, that means I'm working for several less dollars an hour at a company with crappy benefits, because they support an altered work schedule (in my case, that means working 7am-4pm 4 days a week so that I can be home when DD comes home from aftercare, and one afternoon off for appointments and assorted family/home life needs). My other option would be 12-hour days when commute time was considered--meaning I'm leaving home at 7am, and getting home at 7pm 4 days a week, which would suck for our family, even if it would give me a full day off each work week. I like being able to be home when DD gets home, and being able to be home when DH gets home. It gives me the feeling of "almost" being a SAHM, as I get to open the door when they get home, but I'm not spending my days around an empty house.
Thankfully, OP, I'm in a place where I feel like I don't have to run on multiple treadmills, because all the treadmills are connected well, and work well together (at this moment!). Now, if you asked this question 6 months ago, I would have said that the work treadmill was taking all my time, and the home treadmill was going too fast, and I had no idea what was going on with the family treadmill. But, for now, they are all working well together, and I am blessed to be able to move from one to the other with relative ease. If only it was that easy/possible for everyone!
--Mimi
Mom to Lala (2004), Bonus Mom to Big Sis 1 (1991) and Big Sis 2 (1992)
Grammy to Big Kindy Kid (2011), Big Pre-K Kid (2012),
Grandbaby Appendage (2014), and New Baby Grandboy (summer 2017)