Ok, this is mostly for fun because I know everyone has their own opinions, but WWYD in this situation?
I had a very early miscarriage last month (barely 5 weeks). It was very early and we'd only known for a week, but I was pretty upset and emotional for a few days. At the time, I'd commented to DH that if I had just waited to test, I likely would have totally missed the pregnancy, and the miscarriage would have just felt like an exceptionally gross period, but I wouldn't have been so emotionally upset.
When I saw her for the m/c, OB told me that while another pregnancy likely wouldn't happen right away, we didn't need to use protection/wait, but she did want me to start using OPKs because she warned cycles would be wonky for awhile and it would help them date the pregnancy when I got pregnant again.
So, I started using the OPK, and therefore know I ovulated either 14 or 15 days ago.
I'm travelling (airplane) to a big family reunion this weekend, without DH. He's begging me not to test until after I return (so that would put me at 20-21 DPO). His logic is that if I test now, get a positive, and something happens while I'm traveling (i.e. another early m/c), it will ruin my trip. Whereas, if I don't test now, I can't know I'm pregnant...so if I start bleeding while I'm on my trip, I'll just assume it's a late period, won't "know" I'm miscarrying, and will therefore still enjoy my trip.
I completely see his logic, BUT.....if the OPK is accurate (it was one of those Clear Blue digital that gives a smilie face), I'm pretty sure that by this weekend I'd be WAY overdue. Like, overdue enough that I think I'd strongly suspect I was pregnant. And if I started bleeding in that scenario, I think I'd be plagued with "what-if" and wonder for a long time whether it was another early m/c or whether it wasn't. (Strangely enough, the hardest time emotionally for me with early m/c was the day between when I was pretty sure what was happening and when I could see my OB and have her do another HCG test to confirm it. Once I knew for sure, even though I was sad, it was much easier to move on).
SO -- WWYD? Test now? Or wait another WEEK?