Posting here for traffic...DS will be four in January. He has never sat on a toilet, worn underwear, etc. He knows all about toilets, how they work, is very interested in mine and DH's bathroom habits (lucky us!) but is just not interested. I ask him periodically whether he wants to wear underwear, or sit on the toilet, but beyond that, I have been totally hands off about the whole thing. He has seen other kids his age making on the toilet, but told me the other day, maybe he will go on the potty when he's 11...He's a bit of an anxious/rigid child, and also has constipation issues. I have been working under the assumption that one day he will just wake up and decide he is ready. But I am starting to feel like maybe I am doing him a disservice by not pushing a little bit harder. I just really do not want to make an issue out of something that is totally not an issue right now. Just looking for thoughts from others who have BTDT.