Originally Posted by
daisysmom
I really do think we are talking about two different concerns here. I agree with the PP's who have brought up the sun protection angle -- my sister lived in Australia for 5 years right out of college and honestly, her experience there probably was my first learning experience about sun protection. Up until then, we maybe used "Sea and Ski" cream, but we also used a ton of baby oil and even Crisco to help get color. I haven't had any moles removed (do get them checked) but my mother has (she was also a sun worshipper). So I do not disagree, of course, with anyone's wearing clothing to protect themselves, and their kiddos, from the sun.
But I think the second concern, and probably that which the underlying article and the OP were driving at, is a perception (maybe accurate, maybe not, reasonable minds can differ) that girls should be more modest because they are girls. On that front, my DD wears bikeshorts probably b/c they are trendy and everyone else is wearing them, but not because she is modest. And she wears bikinnis and very high cut shorts. Again here, I think reasonable minds can differ, but my parenting choice is to not discourage bikinnis or anything else she wants to wear, honestly. Again, others make different parenting choices and that's fine too.
One can be ok with bikinnis and girls using immodest fashion trends for expression and still want sun protection.