Originally Posted by
bisous
What is your take on this phrase?
I'll tell you I hate it, but cannot figure out exactly why? Does it just totally bother anyone else? I think what is odd is that I don't necessarily disagree with the sentiment behind the statement--that you shouldn't be totally picky about particulars when you are part of a group experience. But the phrase... It just grates!
I use it occasionally as a quick reminder. I will probably pull it out today for a school book exchange for DS3. In think tone and delivery are a big part of it (as with many things). I can see it being used in a taunting way as kind of a "too bad, so sad" or "sucks to be you" way and I would not like that. But a gentle prep for an occasion where not everyone is getting the same thing is different, IMO.
ETA: Here in the Midwest, get and fit are a close enough rhyme to work. Also, I do not like the upset version... OK to be upset, not OK to throw a fit over minor things where this would be used....knowing when to throw a fit is part of growing up.
Last edited by o_mom; 12-19-2014 at 07:41 AM.
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