what sort of "extras" would you want the builder to add in?
we are in the process of building a new house. have picked out the tile/paint/hardwood flooring, next we will be meeting with our builder to go over electrical connections etc and discuss other extra things we may wanr to add. our realtor mentioned some options like outlets outside near roofline for xmas lights and putting outlet in floor of family room (to put a lamp, or something) which sound like great ideas that i wouldn't have thought of otherwise.
We are already getting built-in bookcases in the study, built-in desks upstairs for the kids, and a built-in mudroom bench (with shelves, hooks for jackets, etc). DH had an idea of asking about installing grab bars on the first floor guest bathtub (kind of like the pic below), for when our parents come to visit...as it's probably easier to get them installed from the get-go than trying to get it done later.
http://www.accentondesign.net/Portals/92553/images/shower_over_tub_grab_bars-resized-600.png
Anyway, i'm sure there are other things that would be nice to have but wondering if there are other things i'm not thinking of!