My SIL sent me this text this morning: "because we were unable to do the fundraiser boys will have to purchase all their own equipment for football so if you would like to help with that instead of fundraiser, that would be awesome. Cost for each boy is $225."
Three of their four boys will be playing football.
I would like to help but I also don't want to be funding every sport they play for the rest of their life.
Both SIL and her husband work but they are also terrible with money- never save... own a camper, four wheeler and time share, eat out several times a week.
My husband makes good money but we are savers. We want to be able to pay for our kids college, pay off our house early, and be able to retire. We are currently living on a pretty tight budget so that we can redo our master bathroom without using our savings or adjusting the amount we save. SO WWYD... Poll coming
ETA: we have a pretty good relationship with SIL and family. We see them on Holidays at IL's house but not other than that. We sent their kids $ for their birthdays but they don't send our two anything ...not even a card : /