We host our extended family for all the major holiday dinners (e.g., Thanksgiving, Christmas, Mother's Day/Father's Day, etc.) and I'd like to replace our 15 year old table set. I think I want a classic/casual style. I love pedestal tables, but I don't think pedestal tables expand as large as I need. Ideally, I want to seat 8-10 guests (if not more). We always have to add extra tables for parties anyway, but I put the grandparents and great-grandparents at the "nice table" with real chairs (as opposed to the folding chairs and plastic card tables).
I am considering a farmhouse table, as it would have the heft to stand up to a large open space. We have a huge 2 story entry that is one open space for the dining room/living room/entry area. DDs would also use this table to do homework, so I don't want anything too fancy as it will be regularly used.
I poked around the websites of Crate and Barrel (didn't like anything there), Pottery Barn (I liked the Sumner farmhouse table but am not going to spend over $3,000), Restoration Hardware (some nice options but beyond my budget), and West Elm (their farmhouse tables were either too chunky or too Mid-Century Modern). I wish I could find something on Craigslist (and may keep stalking the site), but are there other more reasonably priced options? Can you suggest where else to look?