I'll preface this by saying I KNOW i am overthinking this too much. Still want your feedback on suggestions in sharing the news to DS1 he'll be attending different school this Fall as a 1st grader, instead of continuing on at his current private school.
The new school is literally around the corner from me, and he'll remain there as a student through 3rd grade before changing to different school across town for later grades. DS1 will get to ride in the school bus (something he always wanted to do but couldn't with his current school cuz too far out to be eligible for it)
How to frame the conversation in such a way to make DS1 feel excited about the new change vs over something to be anxious over? also, DH and i can't seem to agree on the timing to share the news; he feels it's better for DS1 to be aware of it not long after his current school finishes up for the summer (June 7th in our case) DH thinks it'll be good for him to feel included early on, as DS1 is the type that likes to KNOW what is going on, be given plenty of notice and not dropped with the news suddenly.
i feel it's better to tell him sometime around early August cuz by then he'll already have had his 5-6 weeks of rec camp in our town where all of those campers attend the same new school he's going this fall. This way, during the news, i can spin it by saying you can get to go the new school with "James from camp" etc. Also, It's enough time to be aware of the news and think about it without dwelling on it ALL summer long. DS1 won't start his first day till after Labor weekend so that's still a good 4 weeks of time if we tell him in early August vs early June.
TIA!