I think what everyone has said above it really good advice. Another thing I would add, besides living the message that food makes us healthy and to choose healthy foods in healthy amounts is that snacking is not something we do because we are bored. I find myself sometimes looking for a snack and realize that I’m just procrastinating or bored- I’m not actually hungry. I remind my kids of that too when I see them doing it. 9 times out of 10 DS2 will admit he’s just looking for something fun to do and he know there are some new snacks in the pantry that I bought for cold lunches. I’ll probably give him one and then redirect him to find something to do or finish homework, etc.
Another thing I think is crucial to our kids’ self image is to keep away the magazines and social media which pushes airbrushed perfect models in our faces. I really think it’s worth limiting that junk for the health of our kids. It’s so hard for a developing teen not to associate the smiling, laughing ad models with happiness and self fulfillment. Those ads send a strong message. The wrong message.
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