One of my cousins died by suicide over the weekend. I just found out about it last night, and there will be a memorial service for him this Saturday, which will be held across the country from where I live. Normally, I would go and support family. However, a good friend whom I have not seen in 6 years is visiting me this Saturday. She lives on the opposite coast, so this would be the first time I've seen her since I moved. We have been planning this for months.
Should I cancel the visit with my friend and attend my cousin's memorial service? I was not that close to my cousin, nor am I particularly close to the sister he left behind. We are friendly, but we didn't see each other that much growing up - maybe less than a handful of times? My parents and my sister will definitely be attending the service, as is the rest of my extended family. I absolutely adore my friend, but then again, my cousin is family... Would I be a horrible person if I skipped the service due to my friend's visit?