I need help figuring out what to do. DD2 is 4.5. All the kids in her class turn 5 in the fall. She is in a very nice, small traditional preschool with an aftercare option that is suited to our current lifestyle. Prior, she was in a great school that was essentially a private preschool for working parents. Everyone had two income households. All kids paid for 11 hours of coverage. It was a wonderful school but too far away from our house to continue because it was no longer on the way to our offices.
Anyway, we picked our current school on the recommendation of a good friend. Her son is in DD2’s class. I think the world of her. For the first half of the year, Her son played with a couple of kids who got in trouble and he was constantly getting in trouble but it was separate from DD2. I think his mom encouraged him to spend time with DD2 and her bff, also a boy. Around March, he started spending more and more time with DD2 and bff. He wants to be friends with bff and doesn’t want DD2 involved. In the third week of March, I got an email that friend’s son tried to push DD2 down the stairs. Since then he has repeatedly hit/punched her. At Tball, he threw dirt in her face because bff and DD2 were going to be partners. Today, he kicked her in the stomach while she was on monkey bars.
The school has said that the kid can’t stay for lunch anymore and there is supposed to be a teacher dedicated to him. It was getting better but then today. DD2 said no teachers were nearby.
I don’t know that my friend knows it is my DD2 getting hurt. I know some other kids have been hurt too but she seems to be his favorite punching bag. I also think my friend thinks this is an old issue and normal behavioral stuff. We were out last week and she said “when x was having behavioral issues...” For example, at tball, she is sitting on the bench looking at her phone or she or her DH will threaten a time out but won’t follow through.
I don’t know what to do. I can talk to the school director again. But what do I say? I feel like I need to respond to her teacher tonight, but I am at a loss for words. It is making me feel sick. Honestly, she is such a great person and friend. So WWYD? I need advice and I can’t really ask too many people.
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