Host etiquette question
I was invited to a party, seems to be potluck. The host's email says, "I was thinking apps, salads, sweets and cocktails. One constraint, please keep anything you bring dairy-free or vegan. Appreciate it!"
So, she suggests stuff to bring but it must be made as she dictates. Why can't we bring what we want, she doesn't have to eat/touch dairy-full or non-vegan, we can take any/all leftovers, and she can prepare her offerings as she'd like?
Um, I think I'm busy?
No really, is this request unreasonable, or am I unreasonable? Curious as to what others think.
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