My favorite BIL is getting married in July, and DH is in the wedding (gray tux) and DD3 is a flower girl (ivory dress). I believe the bridesmaids are in navy, and the flowers will be coral accents. It's a morning wedding in Denver with a brunch reception, so fairly casual.
This is MIL's last kid's wedding, and she is obsessing on having us all coordinated for the wedding pictures. We haven't had a family picture with all the kids and grandkids in several years, so this is a very big deal for her. She's wearing a sage green knee length flowy dress. I usually default to navy blue because it is absolutely my best and favorite color, but I'm not sure if I should wear that if the bridesmaids are in navy (granted, none of the bridesmaids are on our side of the family, so it wouldn't matter for the pictures, but I don't want to be too matchy matchy with the wedding party).
So I'm trying to work out from DH in gray and DD3 in ivory. DS will get a gray suit and DD1 and DD2 have navy blue and rose Easter dresses they can wear that look similar to but not too close to DD3's flower girl dress. I'm not happy about how my tummy and arms look now, so I don't think I want to do sleeveless. I'm probably a 10/12 right now. I don't even know what kind of dresses are in style right now, but I definitely don't like the cold shoulder look on me. I don't like anything right now at Banana Republic, my usual go-to place.
Normally I would just pick some fun, summery floral dress (maybe like this?), but I'm not normally concerned about coordinating my outfit with 6 other adults plus my family! So would a solid color dress be better for family picture purposes? Am I overthinking this? I keep getting texts and emails from my MIL, asking what I'm wearing, and I'm thinking, "I don't have time to dress shop right now! Bug me again in two weeks when school is over!" She is totally stressing me out about this, and I haven't even set foot into the local Macys or Nordstrom to try anything on yet. Help me, BBB!