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    bisous is online now Red Diamond level (10,000+ posts)
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    Default Facebook requests from people you BARELY know

    Are almost always from people who are involved with some form of direct marketing! That’s been my observation at least! I just added a new “friend” thinking “oh yeah, I remember her—I mean we weren’t great friends but maybe she remembers differently than I do? Or maybe she’s selling something” I check her page. Yep. Selling weight loss products. It’s so predictable! I need to be more disciplined about allowing only people I really want to be in my life, into my life!

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    I hate getting those. I don’t want to offend anyone, but I don’t want to add random people I barely know (and who I know I’m not going to get to know better.)
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    I am very select about who i add. I don't care if they get offended. Nobody has ever said anything to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by StantonHyde View Post
    I am very select about who i add. I don't care if they get offended. Nobody has ever said anything to me.
    Same here. Or sometimes I will add a person and then immediately 'unfollow ' them so I don't have to see their crap.
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    I hate these too. I often just ignore the request - I don’t confirm or deny, just leave them in limbo.


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    Ugh. I hate this too. Right after I had one of my kids an old high school friend sent me a request and immediately sent me a canned message about joining her beachbody group. It took every ounce of self control to just ignore instead of going off on her for suggesting weight loss to a woman a week postpartum.

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    Yeah, I just ignore the request. I have had a couple of people ask me why I didn't accept the request, and i just explain that I dont use facebook very much, and when i do, its to interact with people that I don't see regularly. It really can confuse people

    I've made it a long standing rule that I am only friends with FRIENDS and family that I don't see, and who live far away from me. I have one fb friend in the town that I have lived in for 10 years, which was accidental. I can tell you that most of my friends in town find it very weird, but I dont really care. I just don't get it. I know what you are all doing, and you know what I am doing, if we are FRIENDS. If not, dont friend request me. I think it's pure nosiness or like you said, they have something to sell. I can't believe it when I hear who people are "friends" with. It kind of blows my mind. I had a friend who accepted a friend request from someone she didn't know. She just assumed the woman was a friend of a friend (why would you even think of friending someone with that logic), and it turns out, it was the woman her dh was having an affair with!

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    I've started getting the skeevy old single man requests. Sorry dude who is sitting around sipping wine in his profile picture, I don't know you. I don't want to know you, and I definitely don't want to sit around sipping wine with you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by klwa View Post
    I've started getting the skeevy old single man requests. Sorry dude who is sitting around sipping wine in his profile picture, I don't know you. I don't want to know you, and I definitely don't want to sit around sipping wine with you.
    Ew.

    Immediate block-and-report.

    Of course, this now reminds me that I have to go through my list, not because I don't actually know the people I'm FB friends with (because I actually do!), but because I'm finding it a bit unmanageable right now. (Should probably re-evaluate my groups, too.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by lizzywednesday View Post
    Ew.

    Immediate block-and-report.

    Of course, this now reminds me that I have to go through my list, not because I don't actually know the people I'm FB friends with (because I actually do!), but because I'm finding it a bit unmanageable right now. (Should probably re-evaluate my groups, too.)
    I'm pretty sure you can't report someone for a friend request.

    I get them from other single local men, I think they ask "who is that blond" who maybe commented on a post of a friend, said friend then says, oh she's single and the single guy thinks he's on match.com!

    I also find if I comment on a sports article, usually on NBC about hockey, I get a bunch of random friend requests.

    I just delete.

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