Hugs to everyone who is dealing with this… Before my dad passed away, I spent many visits dealing not only with health issues but also sorting things. Even after getting rid of stuff, which I had to do behind their back half the time, the house is still full of stuff. The most critical thing I did was set up a filing system. My parents are unbelievably disorganized and they had papers from the 1980s! I’m so thankful I took the time to sort out all the paperwork and write down account numbers. When he passed, I had the files but not all the accounts were listed. And for some reason he had over a dozen! Another thing I would strongly recommend is to consolidate their banking accounts now And get power of attorney for not only healthcare but also for these sorts of things. Fortunately they had an up-to-date will and trust.
My mom is living in the house now, and it is still a hoarders paradise. Dreading the task of clearing it. this cartoon sums it up.23BE379B-AEC4-47C6-AB52-F724DD9978CD.jpg
"Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, "What? You, too? I thought I was the only one." C.S. Lewis