Thank you DH for setting DS off so bad that he has been screaming uncontrollably

[HIU8]

for over an hour OVER A SHOEHORN.

DH has this issue that the bedtime routine has to be done certain way and ONLY that way. We have been working with a behavioral therapist who told DH that as long as DS gets all the tasks done we should allow him to decide the order. DH, for some reason, refuses to listen to this. He just yells, gets angry and walks out EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. I dont' know how much more I can take of this, and poor DS is really hurt by it--more than DH realizes.